Broken male culture – part 4 – The causes of brokenness

Brokenness is caused by pain

Pain that is not processed

Pain that has been buried


The pain can be caused by so many things

Abuse, neglect, bullying, failures

Too many things to name can cause the pain


The side effect of brokenness

Is coping mechanisms, pain barriers

The masks we wear to protect ourselves


They can manifest themselves in so many ways

Anger, aggression, passivity, addition

Materialism, lust, shallowness, isolation …….


All these things, these false selves

Prevent our true selves from being known

The course of our lives perverted by lies


You have a true identity

One that is not based on a lie you believe to be true

You have a destiny, there is greatness within you


Only our heavenly Father can show you your true identity

He will speak into you & tell you who you are

If only you will allow him


You are loved, you are wanted

You are worthy of his love

Come just as you are, He loves you completely already


The Father loves you more than enough to accept you as you are now

However the Father loves you way too much

To want to allow you to stay in your brokenness


The cure for brokenness is forgiveness

Forgiveness leads to healing

Healing leads to freedom


If you say you cannot forgive

There is a good chance you are correct

However through the power of Christ you can


Cast your fears upon the Lord

He will bear your burden for you

And you will be free to begin anew


A fresh life

A guided life

A life of being fully loved



Then, when you are healed & living in freedom

Do not allow someone else’s brokenness

To prevent you from being who you were called to be

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